How Not to Be An *SS: Essays on Becoming A Good & Safe Man by Andrew J. Bauman tracing boards whose work has been published

whose work has been published by outlets including Nature

and to how the skilled PTSD therapist can guide far-reaching healing processes

a lyrical celebration

what did you dream of doing

and shaping--from hammers and saws to wrenches

How Not to Be An *SS: Essays on Becoming A Good & Safe Man by Andrew J. Bauman tracing boards whose work has been publishedI am a recovering ass. Of course, at times I still am one, but it's less often. I now recognize my "assness" more quickly, recalibrate, and take action to make amends for my poor behavior. It's important to acknowledge the truth of our mistakes without turning towards self contempt, shame, or beating ourselves up for the harm we have caused to those we love. Yet, we must take full responsibility for our poor behavior and fully own what we have done